Along about fall of
1995, I finally allowed as how it woudn't be terrible if we were to acquire just one cat -
of course, it'd have to be neutered, it'd probably have to be declawed (don't start --
I've never had a cat de-clawed, and I can't see the circumstances where I ever would at
this point. This just goes to prove the defendant's ignorance during the timeframe, your
honor... If you love your cat, don't
declaw!), and as long as it stayed mostly out of my way, it'd probably be okay.
Being the analytical type of pet keeper I am (see the Fish Section - we'll get the Parrots on
here one of these days too), I bought some books, picked up a few magazines, hung out in
the appropriate usenet groups, checked the appropriate web sites, and gradually decided that a
Bengal an Ocicat an Abyssinian would be the
best way to go. Of course, having decided that, I was a fool and picked up the paper,
looked in the classifieds, and bought the first Aby we looked at.
Digression:
Don't do this at home, kids - we're
trained professional idiots. From the lofty perspective of our brief period of cat
ownership, I'd like to suggest that there are two reasonable methods to get a cat - if you
want a non-pedigreed cat, then support your local rescue group, and adopt a shelter
rescue cat from them. On the other hand, if you want a pedigreed cat, then check the show schedules, visit a local
show, and start interviewing breeders who are working with your breed of choice. Ask
around, and ask breeders of other breeds who they'd recommend in your breed. Be prepared
to be interviewed right back -- a good breeder is damn picky who they place their beloved
cats with. Consider if you absolutely have to have a kitten - there are wonderful
pedigreed cats who are retired
(sometimes as young as one or two years) breeder or show cats, who for one reason or
another are available to be placed in a loving home (they didn't like being shown, they
had difficulty breeding, etc.). Also consider looking into a breed rescue
organization.
What not to do:
Don't buy kittens (or puppies
or rabbits, etc.) at pet stores. These animals are mostly
produced by kitten (or puppy,
etc.) mills, and outside of supporting these often deplorable operations, these
animals are generally of much lower quality (ie: health or meeting the breed standard) at
a much higher price than a cat available from a responsible breeder.
Be wary of animals in the
classifieds. There are responsible breeders who advertise
their available kittens in the classifieds. There are also "back yard breeders" and
people who irresponsibly let their animals breed uncontrolled. Know the difference before
you buy an animal in this way.
Free to a good home isn't. There are no free pets. That free to a good home kitten most likely has
had none of the basic veternarian work that it needs done to it, and it absolutely must
have these. Don't bring an animal into your house and expose your family (yes, there are
cross-contagious diseases) and your pets to problems. Besides, "free to a good
home" often attracts the worst kind of animal "adopters" - from people who
won't spend the money to get proper vet care to people who make their living reselling
these animals for research. Don't give an animal away, and don't take a "free"
animal.
You
have the resources - if you can read this, the entire 'net is available to you - to do
this right. Be responsible in how you acquire your pet.
That being said, we bought our aby from an ad in the paper. We love him
dearly, but he certainly has had his problems, and we won't do that again. But with that
first little kitty, I was hooked - I decided I liked cats, and could stand a few more of
them in my life.